Sample # 2
(these questions were asked by a woman whose
11 year-old daughter Nicole recently died after a long illness)Will I ever find peace and fulfillment?
Loved one, there are many energies changing within you at this time. You are in a state of "limbo" as it were, because you have been so busy and fully focused on other things for many years now. At this time, it is good that you are questioning all that has been meaningful to you in your life so far, and you are sifting through this information and gleaning from it that wisdom and the intentions that you desire to carry forward into your "new life" as it were. For indeed, you are feeling a normal sense of sadness in the "loss" of your child, or what we would prefer to refer to as her transition, but you are also feeling a sense of being "untethered" from the planet and all that has held you to it so far in your life. You're entering a period of transformation that can be painful and uncomfortable during the process, but unbelievably liberating at the end, just as any birthing process.
As you know, Nicole was in your life for many reasons, but one purpose was to liberate you from a place of pain where you have found shelter for so many life experiences (or what others would refer to as "past lives"). How can her loss liberate your pain? Because it lances at it as though with a knife, leaving you open and bereft, yet with a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to reach a hand into that bloody core and remove the source for once and for all. It is a brutal picture, but a challenge which you intend to take on, and part of your reason for choosing Nicole. There was no other way besides shock and trauma to lead you to the core of pain, and release it for good, so that you can find truth, true peace, and true happiness.
So to answer your question about purpose and a sense of fulfillment, those concepts are symptoms, never causes, of life's problems. Now is the time, chosen by you, for you, to begin the inner search. Please realize these are not words of cliché, or what ones here do sometimes refer to distainfully as "psycho-babble". No loved one, this time of realization is ALL, the ALL, that will have, as its result, purpose. See yourself as having walked through a door, just as Nicole has, into a new room. You must discover all the lights and shadows within this room in order to see the results manifest in your material life. This most effectively begins with writing, or journaling as some do say, but without pressure to make it "right". Let your thoughts and emotions flow through your pen. Learn a form of meditation that works for you and commit to it daily, so that you can release what has been a fundamental need for many years to connect intensely with the reason and logic and pain of the physical world, and reconnect, find the truth of you, in the spiritual world, without and within. You have many angels and guides to assist you in this matter.
Was Nicole greeted by anyone on the other side?
Oh dear one! With love beyond measure was this one greeted upon transition! Remember, there are types of "families" we refer to as "soul families". These are souls who tend to incarnate together as friends, family, mates, or when not incarnated, act as guides, or just "check in" to make sure all is well. Why do we not remember these family members when we choose an incarnation? Because in truth, no human would be able to stand the pain. If the memories were all conscious, the brain would be on unbearable overload, the lessons meant to be the current lessons would be lost in confusion and pain, and probably everyone would find a way to end their lives and get back "home". So as soon as Nicole made her beautiful entry into her "home", she was greeted by many whom she already knows and the reunion was an amazing thing of light and beauty! It is such a time of joy, that the dichotomy between the joy of those who transition and the terrible sadness of those who are still embodied can only be described as a chasm too wide to give words to. Right now she is in a phase where she is gently being led through the phase of life she just experienced, the lessons (although mostly she was embodied as a selfless gift of love), and then she will gradually reconnect with her true soul-self, a process that leads all souls, once finished with their completed transition phase, appearing to ones as around the age of 30. It is a process. But to her, it will seem as no time before she is greeting you back home, and she knows this, and does not grieve. She absolutely emanates love and joy, for she loves being able to move and dance and is a joyful, wondrous soul.
How can I help my surviving children find peace?Share your new inner focus, your interest in the inner journey, with these children. Invite them along the path. They may show various attitudes at first, but release this with a loving smile. Suggest family exercises, where all sit down and discuss, what is the spiritual life? What does it mean? How does it feel to know that once someone has made their transition, all of the world's goods and accomplishments become meaningless? How important should we make the things of this world (for indeed, we cannot become Monks and leave this place of learning altogether, or we are missing something indeed), and how important should we make the things of the spirit? Prayer is creative energy, creative power. Use it constantly, while remembering that each child is called to his or her own path. Pray that their path is clear, that their wisdom and spiritual vibrations are opened up, stimulated, to receive this form of thought. Take the journey together. It is part of what is meant to be in this time, and you are exactly "on path" as we say, with all that is happening at this time in your life.
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Sample #1(this question was asked by a woman struggling with
a common relationship issue)"Why is my husband shutting me out lately? He's defensive and resistant to my love and communication, and I can't connect with him."
Loved one, do not fear. This one is reaching a vital "crossroads" if you will, in his life. Often, when faced with several directions in which to go, ones do stop in paralyzing fear and consternation. This one only lashes out because of his inner turmoil and confusion, which you are understandably wanting to "fix" in the ways that you see "need" fixing. For instance, no job - here's a job. Pain - here's help. While some of these gestures are important and loving, such as medical attention, be careful that you are not invested in the outcome. You have become accustomed to having a more masculine type energy because your life has required it. You could not function with the life you've chosen if you stayed in a paralyzed state, wringing your hands, and waiting to be rescued. The danger in this is that you can turn this energy onto another and say, in essence, "Snap out of it! Fix it! Get with the program!"
What Ron does not realize on a conscious level, but definitely on a subconscious level, is that it is NOT a time to make "any" decision. For instance, "any" job may just be a temporary solution to a much deeper issue, and actually POSTPONE his life plan, do you see? What you may not realize is that he is doing an amazing amount of processing at this time, that actually BEGAN with his commitment to you, in the form of marriage. He has always kept all his options open as a form of security - he always knew where the back door was. Now, on many levels, he is closing the "back door", and forcing himself to commit to many things, on many levels, from his life work to his life's spiritual goals. He has juggled balls for many years, kept them in the air, and had an escape route, appearing to be quite busy, yet also choosing to avoid many of his life's issues. He is FROZEN with fear about the choices before him. Where it appears that many doors have shut, this is not so. This one has shut those doors himself, in order to FORCE himself to make "forward" rather than "backward" choices.
He is knowing, instinctively, that the choices he makes now are choices that will take him into the life he planned. We know that he will make the proper choices, but in the meantime, this "womb" stage, "cocoon" stage, is important. He is processing deeply. The only way way he would do this, unfortunately found by many, to stop and process, was manifesting pain, which can interfere with conscious processing. However, he is doing the work he needs to be doing. Resist the temptation to "fix" him.
Accept, release, and set only personal boundaries that are required, such as not allowing yourself to be the target of his frustration and fear. Gently remind him that you are not the problem, and you will remove yourself from the solution, in regards to his future. You have offered him a place, a space, of unconditional love, and this behavior is actually a PRODUCTIVE response to his safety. What appears to be unhealthy, is, in most respects, quite healthy and quite necessary. Have patience, focus on your own life, and do not offer assistance unless it is requested, and then do so only moderately. This is not a thing to "fix." It is a person in a state of panic and anxiety, doing a sort of life review, and making monumental choices about his future. Many are doing this in this time, as the world continues to change and experience a huge upheaval. There are many of the spiritual path whose lives at this time actually reflect the fear, anxiety, change, and upheaval of the physical earth and the emotional and spiritual earth. Have peace loved one. All is as it should be.
